Solo Travel: A Crash Course on Life

I’ve said it a hundred times and I’ll say it again: traveling (alone) is the best education a girl can get. Period.

I ask myself repeatedly what the purpose of all my years in school were…particularly those last, very expensive, four at university.

Traveling has taught me more in eight months than I ever learned in my twenty-three years of schooling. It was a crash course experience, for which I dove in head first with little to no preparation. I thought I was ready to take on the world after leaving my corporate job and packing away everything- including the coveted diploma (that never did make it up on the wall).  I thought I knew at least half of what to expect.

Boy, was I wrong.

I’m college educated and professionally experienced, but what did that actually teach me about the world we live in? How much did all of that prepare me for what I would experience while traveling to fifteen different countries the last eight months? Truthfully, not nearly enough. And even more truthfully, I don’t think anything could.

The Western World I grew up in prepares you to be a contributor- not a free thinking traveler. Myself, along with millions of others, were and are encouraged to finish school, get a degree and start working early. Work hard, save money and settle into a relationship with someone that will marry you- you know, “while you’re still of age.” That’s the plan society feeds us- and I bought into it until a year ago. I was knee deep into that plan…until I realized I wanted more.

I wanted what I could only learn from breaking the mold I had created to fit into society. I wanted a world education and a global perspective. I wanted to understand our planet in its entirety with all its diverse people. Something told me that through doing this I would be learning more about myself, too- and what an understatement that was.

So many things I never could have known about the world, and myself, all unraveled as I kept traveling.

To go out into the world and experience other cultures and foreign places, you need courage and open mindedness- something that is hard to teach and even more difficult to learn. You need patience and self-awareness.

You may think you know yourself…until you’re on a 36 hour journey through 3 countries with 4 flights, 2 trains and buses…just wait. You learn just how adaptable you are- or aren’t. Your inner dialogue displaying how you really feel about different cultures and uncomfortable situations. That’s when things get interesting.

Being that there is no other way to survive while traveling other than to grow and adapt, you are quickly forced into a crash course. Adapt or go home. It’s that simple.

Luckily, I caught onto this quickly. I learned how to move around and how to interact with all different kinds of people. I learned how to find peace in the unknown. I accepted that the more I thought I knew, the less I actually did. I learned to laugh instead of cry. And getting lost (something that I used to loath) became my favorite hobby.

Traveling forced me to grow thicker skin and to trust myself. The voice of my instincts became louder and louder, eventually making such internal noise I was unable to ignore them. I am now ruled by what I call my “internal compass,” and no longer by the expectations of the society around me.

I learned to appreciate the world and its diversity. Each culture so different from the next, giving me new insight into a place I used to only dream of or see in the movies.

Life became less about doing and more about being. Each day a new experience or adventure.

I am forever changed. I am forever grateful. And I am now a big believer that everyone should travel solo at least once in their life. It’s going to teach you more than any bachelors degree or certification, and (bonus) it’s a lot cheaper.

Travel, if you can, because you owe it to yourself and the people you love. To go away and learn about life, and about yourself, is priceless and makes you a better version of yourself. Once you understand yourself more you can love more freely and openly. Traveling will teach you how to be in a healthy relationship with yourself so that you can be in one with a partner later. And that is NOT something you will ever learn in school.

Travel, grow, live and love.


And why did I get that expensive four year degree again?  That was a lot of money that could have been spent traveling!  Just sayin…

2 thoughts on “Solo Travel: A Crash Course on Life

  1. I couldn’t agree more dear. I spent 7+ years struggling through getting my degree during my couple of days off while working full time, throughout my entire 20’s, because I didn’t have the money or support to go full time. I could have spent my 20’s traveling the world, saved money and come back at anytime to finish a degree much more quickly. But we dont’ know what we know until we know it. Regardless what age we decide to break free and start living for us and happiness and our own definition of ‘success’ it’s never too late. I started at 34 and though I wish I’d done it earlier, there may be a reason I am doing what I’m doing only now… all the thing sthat happen, all the people we meet, maybe we weren’t ready for them 4 years earlier…. or 10 years earlier. WE had to be ready for what life could give us! xo

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