New York is Not as Overwhelming as You Think

New York is Not as Overwhelming as You Think

For the longest time, I’ve been afraid of visiting New York. I’ve always perceived it as totally intimidating, as far as talking about ‘the big city’ goes. But boy, was I wrong about this place.

There’s a lot of getting used to in NYC especially for a woman who lives and travels alone. But once you give it a chance, it’s not as overwhelming as it’s always made out to be.


Sometimes, the best food isn’t the most expensive. You can find good bagels at almost every corner of the city for $1; the juiciest Peking duck buns at Corner 28 in Queens for $1.25; the most amazing slice of cheese pizza at Joe’s in West Village for $2.75; and mouthwatering strawberry
cheesecake ice cream at Mikey Likes It in Harlem for $4-8. Enjoying small
delights like these is how most New Yorkers live!


If you get the hang of navigating the city through the public transportation system, you can basically go anywhere you want. Of course, being cautious is applicable in all commuting scenarios. USA Today emphasized the need for being alert especially on subway stations at night or in sketchy neighborhoods. Getting a cab or an Uber is a much more expensive option, but in some cases, also a lot safer.


Contrary to what I initially thought, New York is full of friendly locals and fellow tourists, and not people walking to and from work without a care for anyone else. It’s very easy to meet people especially if you’re visiting since you’re more likely to try a lot of new things. Time Out has a list of 10 ways to meet new people which all actually sound like interesting and fun experiences. Drawing a nude model while beer tasting, for instance, can help you strike a conversation with others, as well as playing bowling with the LGBTQI community. They can stay your lifelong friends, more so if you plan on settling down in New York.


Just like most hassle-free trips, finding a place to stay just takes careful planning. There are plenty of options such as budget hostels, couch surfing, and home-sharing. It’s good to explore the different boroughs to get a feel of what each neighborhood has to offer, especially if you’re planning to stay long-term. Apartment hunting doesn’t have to be a painful process with the help of professionals and friends you meet along the way.
A comparative article by Yoreevo details the responsibilities of brokers, and these include making complicated processes like market analysis less overwhelming. In a city where apartment units are the main choice of shelter, having someone to help narrow down your options objectively is a blessing. Getting a roommate is also common among younger residents, so don’t be afraid to ask around as you meet people.


The city is known for diversity, not just with cultural backgrounds, but in professions, too. I like to look back at this quote published on The Cut that says, ‘Figure out what is going to be your area of specialization and opportunity will find you.’ The words were uttered by Mary Ann Tighe, CEO of a prominent real estate company. It doesn’t just apply to me, but for people I know who are looking to move to New York, too, and are worried about their prospects.


If you’re feeling a little overwhelmed, there are plenty of places to go in the city where you can clear your head and just breathe. Try the New York Public Library, the museums, the numerous parks and botanical gardens.

Take as many quiet moments as you want and New York will never lose its charm.



Allison Jennings is a freelance writer and graphic designer. Before becoming a digital nomad, she used to work in a corporate setting until she was hit with the urge to see the world. Her favorite places include Bali, Amsterdam, and New York.

About the Author:

On August 14th, 2015 I left my life in the United States behind with the intention to never look back. I had the "American Dream" and I woke up from it, to create a new reality for myself. I sought out beauty in a world that was increasingly dark for me at the time and ended up finding more than I bargained for. With only a backpack, I traveled across Europe, South East Asia and then on to Africa. With over 30 countries stamped in my passport, I've become an entirely new version of myself with a broader perspective on what it means to be a woman in today's world. My hope is that by sharing my stories and featuring women like me from around the world, we can inspire others to break down their own internal barriers and go cross a few international borders while they're at it. I truly believe travel can be healing to a troubled soul, empowering to the lost and rejuvenating for the exhausted. Perspective is everything, and I believe in the power of "going global," what about you? is a site that started out with my stories and grew into a platform for women all around the world to tell their travel tales of trials and triumph. We all believe that the more you see of the world, the better you can be as a person who inhabits it. Women encouraging other women to grow, travel, evolve- that's what SGG is all about. ---> Read my very first blog post (see "Archives" for August 2015) to learn how this all began.


  1. Tamieka S November 14, 2018 at 5:15 pm - Reply

    NYC is one of my favorite cities. Thank you for sharing the restaurant options. The bagel looked wonderful.

  2. Anna Fabian November 14, 2018 at 6:35 pm - Reply

    such a fun synopsis of new york! love the photos.

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